Overcoming “Just in Case”

Getting into the mindset to declutter is a process. You have to have the desire to start and it can be really daunting if you have a house full of stuff. Then, once you get started, there are those things that make you hesitate. You ask yourself “do I need this?” and although you haven’t even touched it, thought about it, or known it was there for months (possibly years), you get stuck wondering if maybe you’ll use it later and how it may come in handy one day. 

I’m here to tell you that probably 99% of the time, “one day” never comes. That item will continue to sit, unused and unloved, right where you left it until you go through your things again. 

We know we don’t use these things that catch us up, but we still want to keep them. Why? 

Mainly because of fear. We’re afraid if we get rid of something, we’ll need it right after. As someone who has gotten rid of about 60% of what I previously owned, I can assure you I’ve never once needed any of those “just in case” items. 

Clutter overcomes us because we keep so many things we don’t actually need. 

But what if you’re the exception and not the rule here? Well, I’ve got great news for you. Here are some tricks to put your mind at ease and let go of those “just in case” items. Most of these are concepts popularized by The Minimalists, Josh & Ryan. 



There is a difference between those items that you really use less often (a hammer or ski pants) vs those things you are holding onto in case you ever need them (your old coffee maker you’re holding onto in case the new one breaks).

Things that actually add value that you use less often are perfectly fine to keep. If you know you are going to keep skiing, holding onto those pants is a great idea. Items like this are used for certain occasions usually and not part of the typical day-to-day. For me, this is camping gear. However, if your new coffee maker were to break, would you actually want to get your old one back out of storage? You probably got this new one for a reason, after all. My guess is you’d just go get another new one, so that old one needs to go! 

If an item is actually used but is more for hobbies or once in a while things like hanging pictures around the house, it’s a “just for when”. If it’s buried under other unused items and hasn’t been thought of in the last 12 months, and you’re just afraid to get rid of it, it’s a “just in case”. 


THE 20/20 RULE

Most of the items we hold onto thinking we’ll need can be replaced in 20 minutes for $20 or less. This means if you DID need that thing for some reason, you can probably get it within a 20 minute drive for $20 or less. 

Now, I know we aren’t all made of money and replacing things we already had seems pointless. But the truth is this: you never used it anyway, so there is a very slim chance you’ll ever need to replace it. And even if you do, it’s not something that’s likely to break the bank. This should ease your anxiety and allow you to move on and let it go. 


THE 90/90 RULE

If you haven’t used it in the last 90 days and aren’t realistically (key word here) going to use it in the next 90 days, it needs to go.

This typically envelopes the big season changes, but you can obviously adjust this to your liking. You can do 30/30 or 120/120, whatever works for you. But this allows you to see the practicality of the things you’re holding onto and if you haven’t/won’t use it within this time frame, it’s safe to let it go.



If you are really trying to get rid of things but you’re too nervous to take the plunge, create a hold box. Get a box of whatever size (or more than one if you really need to) and put those “just in case” items in it. Close it up and put it out of sight for a while. A month, 6 months, a year..whatever you’re comfortable with. Set a reminder in your phone for that amount of time, and if you haven’t needed anything in that box in that time, donate it. 

The key here is DON’T OPEN IT after the time is over. Don’t tempt yourself all over again. Just take the box and let it go. You’ll probably have forgotten all you put in there anyway!



I recently started tagging my clothes to keep track of what I wear and don’t wear. I have a roll of ribbon left over from my wedding and I decided to put it to use. I cut a small piece and tie it around the top of my clothes hangers. Whenever I wear something, I remove the ribbon when I put the piece back on the hanger. At the end of the year, if there’s anything still with a ribbon on it, it’s safe to let it go. 

Now, I do think there are exceptions for special occasion items, but that’s about it. This took me maybe 10 minutes to do and will save me a lot of trouble down the line by showing me what I actually wear in my closet!



This is a trick I use for my stuff. If I’m unsure about something, I post it for sale. Even if I’m concerned I might need it later. I mostly use Poshmark and ebay, but will use Craigslist for bigger items like furniture. If it doesn’t sell in set amount of time (I use 2 months) or I haven’t used it, I donate it. If it sells before then, I see how much it really means to me when I go to get rid of it. If I REALLY need it, I can always cancel the sale. But I’ve never had that happen and I have no problem letting it go as I would rather have the cash!



Sentimental items are the hardest to get rid of, I agree. We associate them with times in our lives and memories. But the truth is the memories aren’t in the things themselves, they’re in us. The things spark the memories. 

When I started getting rid of things and I finally got around to the sentimental things, I had a process. If I loved the item and was happy to have it, I kept it. I have a stuffed animal my grandpa gave me as a baby and although it’s so old and a bit ratty, I know I’ll never get rid of it because I still love it. But the things that I kept out of guilt but didn’t really like I would take pictures of and donate. My pictures didn’t take up any extra space and they still allowed me to look at the items and remember the memories just the same. 

Don’t feel obligated to hold onto things that you don’t love or that don’t bring you joy. If you think your mom would kill you for getting rid of something, ask if she wants it, or a sibling or other family member. Or don’t say anything about it! It is your life, after all. Once you get rid of these things that are holding you down, I promise you’ll feel much lighter! 


The truth is things are just things. Anything that you look at and think “I might need this later” when you haven’t needed it in a long time is likely just taking up space in your home. Donate it to someone else that can really use it, or sell it if that makes you feel better. 

Once you begin to declutter, I tell everyone it’s like a snowball. You get this momentum and the more you go, the easier it gets. If you can’t bring yourself to get rid of things the first go-round, you most likely will later.

My first big purge, I got rid of quite a bit and was sure that everything that remained was something I wanted to keep. But as time kept going on, I was acutely more aware of those things I wasn’t using and had just held onto for one reason or another. 

Almost 4 months later, I’m still finding things I want to let go of. Decluttering is a process and it takes some people longer than others, but if you’re really determined, you’ll get there.


Are you struggling with getting rid of things or wanting to get started but aren’t sure how? Leave a comment below or send me an email at thompsondanir@gmail.com! 

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  • Simple is always better. I tried so hard to figure out what I was going to wear for Easter. I spent a good hour trying things on the week before. I sent my sister tons of pictures asking her thoughts. In the end, I wasn’t really satisfied with any of them for some reason so I decided to just go with an outfit I know I love and feel good in. For some reason wearing white just makes me feel super put together. And I managed to not spill anything on myself or get chocolate on my pants which is a major win y’all. .

We don’t need to overthink things so much. It just causes unnecessary stress. I do like to plan ahead because it saves me time, but I also should have realized sooner that the dress I was trying to make work just wasn’t working. Even though I love that dress, it doesn’t flatter me how I want it to and it might be time to let it go. Don’t be afraid to let go of things that don’t give you exactly what you need. You don’t have to settle, something else will always come along. Or you probably already have something else in your closet (or life, this isn’t limited to clothes!) that’s even better than what you’re trying to make work!
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  • “There is beauty in simplicity”
My simple wardrobe makes me so happy and I love the seemingly endless possibilities I have with it. Having a love of neutrals really works well for me with this! 
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By removing the things and people that don’t make me happy, I have more time and energy for the things that do that I used to put off and not prioritize like I should have. We spend so much of our lives being “busy”. But what are we busy with? Most of it is actually unimportant when you break it down. .

I say no to things much more now and that allows me to spend more of my time relaxing and enjoying life. I used to constantly feel rushed or like I should be doing something. If I wasn’t moving, I felt like I was wasting my time. But the truth is, resting and just being home with Jake and the boys is my happy place. It brings me so much joy, so that’s what my priority is. .

Having more time to just BE has been amazing. Being more picky in my relationships has helped me really value the ones I hold most dear and has brought me to an amazing new job because I wasn’t willing to settle for anything less. Respect yourself and your time and prioritize the things that matter most to you. Life’s too short to live any other way.
  • “When you love what you have, you have everything you need.” So many wonderful things have happened since I simplified my life. Changing my outlook on life wasn’t really intentional, but I’m so thankful it happened when it did. I was kind of at a breaking point. Fed up with where I was and how things were going with my old job. Struggling with depression and comparison. I knew something had to change but I had no idea what. Simplicity was that thing. .
Now, I spend way less time on social media. I deleted Facebook off my phone and haven’t  looked at it in weeks. I’m much happier without it. I read a lot more. I’m getting much better at ignoring the impulse to pick up my phone and when I am on it, to compare my life to the perfect pictures people post. I even cut a few inches off my hair! 💇🏻‍♀️ I want things as easy as they can be right now. It takes a lot of stress out of my life. Try to go a whole weekend without social media and see how awesome it feels!

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